The Is Deconstruction Right For You? mini-course answers 5 of the biggest questions many people ask me over and over again!
It is perfect for you if you're:
✓ tired of legalism, false doctrines, and exclusionary policies.
✓ discouraged by what you see from Christian leaders.
✓ trying to recover from #churchhurt.
✓ not even sure if you want to be Christian anymore.
In less than an hour, you can get clear on what deconstruction is, what it isn't, and how it can help you break free from toxic religion.
Is Deconstruction Right For You?
Includes 6 Videos You Can Watch In 5 Minutes (Or Less), A Printable Workbook, & Bonus Resources To Help You Confidently Decide If It's Time To Deconstruct Your Faith!
In this course we will ask the questions together:
- What is Faith Deconstruction?
- What is Toxic Religion?
- Am I the Only One who Feels This Way?
- Why Do I Feel Shame When I Question Things?
- Am I Losing My Faith?
And I'll help you discover the tools you need to be able to answer them honestly, with self-compassion and awareness.
Deconstruction should always be a personalized journey and it's important to have a guide who understands how hard it is to challenge everything you were taught to believe.
I'm Angela, a Faith Deconstruction Coach with 11+ years of experience in ministry, and I'm here to tell you the choice about what you believe is (and always should have been) yours to make.
For years, you’ve been told that you have to believe certain things to be welcomed, loved, and ‘deserve’ safety.
They taught you to push aside your natural intuition and curiosity, while pressuring you to fit in.
But that’s all changing now, because you’ve realized how small you had to make yourself to fit into their box.
Now you’re taking back your power, your voice, your body.
You’re remembering how to choose what’s resonant with your soul and take up more space, even when that rocks the boat.
"Angela helped me to gain a new relationship with my Creator & myself..."
Both of which are without limits & not confined to any sort of 'box'. When I first started deconstructing, I quickly became overwhelmed at all the toxicity I was finally noticing in the religion I used to be a part of. It was physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually painful. But, I went from someone who avoided feelings at all costs (even when I was alone), always relying on the opinions of others, to someone who has more tools in my toolbox to continue in growth. I now trust myself (including my feelings) to shape my own path, even if it means nobody is leading me. Before this course, I was about ready to give up on God altogether.
"She has helped me to be brave and for that, I am truly grateful."
It was refreshing to be coached by Angela because I come from a very conservative background. She empowered me to become ALL that God has created me to be, not just a portion. I appreciate her honesty and intuition immensely. She always has the right words to say, even in the most difficult moments.
Owner and Artist,
Robin Kraft Design
" Angela is the perfect guide for this journey...."
I decided last year that I needed a coach to walk with me as I deconstructed/reconstructed my faith and relationship with "church". Angela brings a depth of knowledge, kind spirit, and is the best kind of coach...the kind who helps you find the answers within!
Coach and Founder,
Messy is Wonderful, LLC.
Imagine being in a space that nurtures you spiritually, without having to compromise your beliefs or pretend to be someone you’re not.
Plus, you get to do all this from the comfort of your own home. No travel, no crowds, no pressure to fit in. No one even has to know you're taking this course unless you want them to know.
You get to explore the content at your own pace, in your own space.
As a certified life coach, seminary-trained online pastor for 11+ years, and a Faith Deconstruction Coach I have a lot of experience helping people navigate faith...
but deconstruction is also very personal for me.
I learned to be a people-pleaser at an early age because we moved a lot, and it felt like I was always the new kid trying to figure out where I fit in.
When my hubby and I started going to church in our late 20s (because “it would be good for our kids”), I was ecstatic to find out that the rules and expectations were pretty cut and dry. It didn’t feel like legalism; it felt like an instruction manual that laid out a plan for “How to be a better person” and, perhaps more important to me, “How to be accepted.”
After a few years of being deeply embedded in the church, I walked away with a pretty big case of #ChurchHurt and entered a season of deep doubts and wrestling. I was deconstructing from toxic religion, even though (at the time) I didn’t know that’s what it was called.
It took years of self-love, therapy, coaching, and trauma recovery to create a healthy spiritual life that actually nourishes me, without pressure to be who people think I should be…and that’s my hope for you!
Not that you’ll believe what I believe or practice what I practice, but that you’ll find healing and learn to curiously explore what your soul is longing for most.
You won't be pressured to believe what I believe or practice what I practice.
Instead, you'll have the support you need to find healing and curiously explore what your soul is longing for most.
I’ll be a guide walking beside you, not a guru directing your every step so that I get the credit for your happiness. (Gross, right? But we know it happens alllll the time in Christian spaces so let’s just agree not to go there, K?)
Instead, let’s go through the looking glass and get curioser and curioser about the wild sacred holy spaces you’re capable of creating ❤️